Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Military Ball

This makes the third year that I've gone to our group's military ball. It was this past Saturday, at Salvatores in Buffalo. I had to work that day. Cinderella? You bet...[not]. I was picked up after a hectic day at work around 3:30. We picked up another cadet on our way up, and arrived at about 5:00 or a little after. After I had changed into my dress blues, I went to try to find the other three members of our honor guard. We had been asked to present and retire the colors, and we had practiced...somewhat. But we needed serious practice of the dress rehearsal variety. I may or may not have been on the verge of panic, but we finally all arrived, and then began assessing the room-- and this being about an hour and 15 minutes before we were supposed to do it for real. There was a problem, and that problem was: tall flags, short ceiling. Plus chandeliers. And the environment was not conducive to ceiling-scratching or chandelier-knocking. So...we weighed our options and our flag bearers were careful. And we didn't knock any chandeliers down...score 10 points for us!

I was a rifle bearer, so it was pretty straight forward for me. Except for...the honor guard commander (a flag) forgot about a move that the rifles had to do, so he skipped calling it or waiting for us to do it. And the other rifle person and I were like, what?? But of course, being all official and stuff, we just improvised and carried on. And since people are (theoretically) at attention while colors are posted and retrieved, I think it ended up being okay. I mean, we didn't drop any rifles or knock over any tables...

Anyhow, moving on to pictures. This first one is the squadron photo.

This is me with that cadet that we picked up on the way to the ball.

This is that cadet with Sarah and me. You remember Sarah, of course, from previous CAP-related posts.
This is Sarah and me again. Fairly normal...

This is that cadet with Sarah. Also fairly normal.


This is that cadet with Sarah and me again. It's a reflection, of course. It's pretty cool.

This is me with the wing commander, my squadron commander, and the group commander. And you are not allowed to notice that my collar is messed up, or that my top suit jacket button is missing because the stupid thing popped off 30 seconds before we retired the colors, but I put it in my pocket and I am going to sew it back on, annoying little bugger.

Oh, this is also a reflection. But it's the ceiling. See the maroon and white thingy in the center-ish of the picture? That's me and the white is the jacket (technical nomenclature: shrug) that I'm wearing. I'm looking up. That cadet is also standing there looking up. The thing hanging down in the lower left hand corner is a chandelier. Those chandeliers were fairly common.
Basically, after the frantic honor guard practicing, I changed (with the other honor guard girl), then ate, then changed and retired the colors, then changed again (with the other honor guard girl), and then hung out with mostly Sarah and that cadet, us being the way cool homeschooled, Baptist cadets that we are. We walked around the restaurant...it's amazing...and took pictures...and then left at about 10:45. We dropped that cadet off, and then dropped me off at work so I could drive back home. I got home around 1 or something. And so that's that for the mil ball, till next year anyhow.

Hey, stay warm and check back again soon...I'll post within the next 30 days or so, I hope.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

happy new year? or what?

Hi.

It's the time of year when people-- strangers, good friends, family members, or anyone in between-- turn to one another and say: "Happy New year!!!" It's happened to me several times over the past few days. I'll be there, minding my own business, when out of nowhere, I hear "Happy New Year!!!" And it is always followed by at least 3 exclamation points. My only question is...what is the proper response? For a response is always good. I've categorized it down to a few:

Them: Happy New Year!!!
Me: Uh, happy New Year?
[awkward pause in which they walk away fast]

Them: Happy New Year!!!
Me: Hehehe, same to you!!!!!!
[awkward pause in which we realize that we really have nothing to continue the conversation with, so one of us needs to walk away fast]

Them: Happy New Year!!!
Me: Oh, hi!
[awkward pause where I wonder if I'm going to be mugged for not returning the holiday spirit]

Them: Happy New Year!!!
Me: ohhihappynewyearnicetoseeyouhahaetcetera?
[awkward pause which ends when they give a brief, forced laugh and walk away fast]

What can I say...I'm an introverted social creep. But the worst thing is when people say: "So how was your new year?" It's sorta like the "Hey-how-are-you-doing" thing that people rattle off and don't expect an answer to. I never know if I should go into an in depth story about exactly how my entire New Years went, or just say, "It was good!!!" (remembering to put in my three exclamation points, of course). And then am I supposed to ask them how their New Years was? What if I don't care? I don't like being disingenuous...if I want to know how you are doing or if I want to know how your New Years was, I'll ask and expect to stand there listening to you respond. But if I don't care, it's a waste of time. So normally I don't ask people how their New Years was in return. And I normally don't go beyond the "It was good!!!' response. But I'm always confused after encounters like that.

Eh, ok. I need to return to my biology paper research. Final project proposal is due on Saturday, but I want to get it done today. Anyone have any great resources on sensory processing disorder (its definitions, causes, and treatments), and specifically how it relates to the field of occupational therapy?

By the way, happy new year. (!!!)